Singledom
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I aim to misbehave
Quote: Gob, Oct 2011
Proper
Quote: Commandant Lassard, Oct 2011Quote: Gob, Oct 2011Hi everybody!
I'm birded up for a change an all. Madness.
Spill the beans, champ
I have met a female of the species who lets me put my widge in her fanny on a semi regular basis.
Proper
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snarf!
Quote: Gob, Oct 2011
I miss that bit, the rest not so much
Quote: Commandant Lassard, Oct 2011Quote: Gob, Oct 2011Hi everybody!
I'm birded up for a change an all. Madness.
Spill the beans, champ
I have met a female of the species who lets me put my widge in her fanny on a semi regular basis.
I miss that bit, the rest not so much
snarf!
Online dating update: Got a lady's number! and she actually seems keen to meet up for a date.
snarf!
So this girl i've been messaging is bloody hard work. One word reply's followed by kisses is seriously annoying. Think I'll move on and keep looking. 
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Quote: Captain Stupendo, Oct 2011
Yes, You need keep moving and then making decision.
So this girl i've been messaging is bloody hard work. One word reply's followed by kisses is seriously annoying. Think I'll move on and keep looking.
Yes, You need keep moving and then making decision.
snarf!
Right well I'm enjoying this single lark at the mo, got a date tommorow, a date the next day and another later on in the week. Might even get lucky with one of them
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Not really.
was good to finally get an answer in a way though. i've not known where i stand since mid january, so... meh.
i still love him to bits, but if he says he doesn't feel the same any more... well. Sh*t, really.
was good to finally get an answer in a way though. i've not known where i stand since mid january, so... meh.
i still love him to bits, but if he says he doesn't feel the same any more... well. Sh*t, really.
You'd think so, but i highly doubt it.
the amount of sh*t he put up with from me is unreal...
He's a really nice guy. just selfish & stubborn leading to thoughtlessness. but then he's an only child too, so... *shrug*
wants to stay friends, but i don;t know how to do that.
going from loving to hating someone is fairly easy, but when you don't want to hate them, it's a whole lot harder.
going to write his mum a letter, his parents are cool. i just want her to know how i feel now, before i likely go mental and really upset him.
hopefully she might understand how hard it's going to be, and with that won't completely hate me if it does happen...
i don't know what i want to achieve with it to be fair, i'm having a whole bunch of stupid ideas at the moment
the amount of sh*t he put up with from me is unreal...
He's a really nice guy. just selfish & stubborn leading to thoughtlessness. but then he's an only child too, so... *shrug*
wants to stay friends, but i don;t know how to do that.
going from loving to hating someone is fairly easy, but when you don't want to hate them, it's a whole lot harder.
going to write his mum a letter, his parents are cool. i just want her to know how i feel now, before i likely go mental and really upset him.
hopefully she might understand how hard it's going to be, and with that won't completely hate me if it does happen...
i don't know what i want to achieve with it to be fair, i'm having a whole bunch of stupid ideas at the moment
The same kind of thing happened with my sister and her bloke
he was being a sh*tball, got her and himself really into debt and she needed to get out, she got into a proper rutt with everything.
ended up going to live in greece for 6 months & came back a completely different person.
she came back, saw another guy for about a year, but he was really really immature and she binned him off. a few months later her and her previous ex met up for a chat, this was about 3 years ago now, they moved in together a couple of years ago and now have a 7 week old baby together. time does change a lot as they both grew up a lot while apart, when they got back together though "it was like we were never apart" so they've had it really good.
i don't want to have it in my head that one day he'll change his mind though, that his feelings will change.
i don't want that hope to be there as it's likely he won't. and he's been thinking about this for a long time as it is, so he's likely very sure about this.
he's been saying for a while that he doesn't know what he wants generally, from life, from work, from anything. it just keeps coming up that he wants to "have fun and stop worrying"
i'm not entirely sure he really understands how feelings change over time, he told me the "spark" has gone... which feels like a non-reason to me because the spark went a long time ago for me. we've been together nigh on two years, it had to go some time.
as it does with everyone. you start to get comfortable with people, realise their habits and everything and they start to get to you but then you realise they're human too, just like you and you have all sorts of annoying habits too which will annoy them.
i mean, the way i feel about him now is completely different to the way i did when i first realised my feelings, but i think in a way, he was expecting to feel the same about me forever and a day... I'm not sure.
or maybe he has a different definition of that "spark"
at the end of the day though, people always react differently when things start to move on from the "fantasty stage" as it gets called. seems that he couldn't really manage to get past that.
from now on, what happens, happens. that's it i suppose, i can't do anything else now, other than trying to move on & not go batsh*t insane
It's annoying. i can't really blame him for how he feels, but i'd like to smack the sh*t out of him for some things he's done recently while keeping me hanging.
he was being a sh*tball, got her and himself really into debt and she needed to get out, she got into a proper rutt with everything.
ended up going to live in greece for 6 months & came back a completely different person.
she came back, saw another guy for about a year, but he was really really immature and she binned him off. a few months later her and her previous ex met up for a chat, this was about 3 years ago now, they moved in together a couple of years ago and now have a 7 week old baby together. time does change a lot as they both grew up a lot while apart, when they got back together though "it was like we were never apart" so they've had it really good.
i don't want to have it in my head that one day he'll change his mind though, that his feelings will change.
i don't want that hope to be there as it's likely he won't. and he's been thinking about this for a long time as it is, so he's likely very sure about this.
he's been saying for a while that he doesn't know what he wants generally, from life, from work, from anything. it just keeps coming up that he wants to "have fun and stop worrying"
i'm not entirely sure he really understands how feelings change over time, he told me the "spark" has gone... which feels like a non-reason to me because the spark went a long time ago for me. we've been together nigh on two years, it had to go some time.
as it does with everyone. you start to get comfortable with people, realise their habits and everything and they start to get to you but then you realise they're human too, just like you and you have all sorts of annoying habits too which will annoy them.
i mean, the way i feel about him now is completely different to the way i did when i first realised my feelings, but i think in a way, he was expecting to feel the same about me forever and a day... I'm not sure.
or maybe he has a different definition of that "spark"
at the end of the day though, people always react differently when things start to move on from the "fantasty stage" as it gets called. seems that he couldn't really manage to get past that.
from now on, what happens, happens. that's it i suppose, i can't do anything else now, other than trying to move on & not go batsh*t insane
It's annoying. i can't really blame him for how he feels, but i'd like to smack the sh*t out of him for some things he's done recently while keeping me hanging.
So. his new bird sent me the most abusive email i have ever recieved in my life yesterday from a fake email address 
wonderful!
wonderful!
I aim to misbehave
Quote: Hare, Feb 2012
I'd never hit a woman. However, that's cos I'm a guy. You're a woman though, so kick her in the c*nt.
Really, using a fake email address to send you personal abuse with no good reason shows what a cowardly little b*tch she is.
So. his new bird sent me the most abusive email i have ever recieved in my life yesterday from a fake email address
wonderful!
I'd never hit a woman. However, that's cos I'm a guy. You're a woman though, so kick her in the c*nt.
Really, using a fake email address to send you personal abuse with no good reason shows what a cowardly little b*tch she is.
too many unnecessary expletives in it to bother reading it again.
it's hilarious towards the end though "true love" i wish i could declare i'd found my true love after 4 days in someone's company, but then again i'm not 14
and i apparently have no idea what the word "love" means anyway...
haaaha.
he actually threatened us with small claims court last night, over my laptop - a gift.
which i remember quite clearly he said: "you keep the laptop, that's yours" on the night he left me.
it was not long after he complained about the fact i can't speak french, as he didn't even want to break up with me in my own goddamn language and not long before he went and had a p*ss on the playing field.
i mean, i wasn't going to be petty about asking for things like that back* - a gift is a gift, no matter what happens.
i could have been petty and in that case would have taken two thirds of his shirts, his thick socks, "his" thick airwalk jacket, book light, shower gels, deodorant, pint glasses, mugs and the chest freezer. i would have gone as far as demanding my bag of brussels sprouts back as well if he'd been a proper d*ck about it.
he dropped it though. so that's sound.
'course, i only got about half of the sh*t i'd leant him back, not going to see the rest of that again. but whatever.
*=i personally didn't even ask for any of it back to start with, other than my headphones.
all this has been done through other people, i couldn't be arsed getting involved with it, he just assumed that the withheld number that turned up on his phone was me when it wasn't, it was faye when she was sat outside his house in her mums car.
anyway, since stuff is staying where it is now, here is jake enjoying his newest toy, courtesy of butthead. - his precious stuffed snake.
it's hilarious towards the end though "true love" i wish i could declare i'd found my true love after 4 days in someone's company, but then again i'm not 14
and i apparently have no idea what the word "love" means anyway...
haaaha.
he actually threatened us with small claims court last night, over my laptop - a gift.
which i remember quite clearly he said: "you keep the laptop, that's yours" on the night he left me.
it was not long after he complained about the fact i can't speak french, as he didn't even want to break up with me in my own goddamn language and not long before he went and had a p*ss on the playing field.
i mean, i wasn't going to be petty about asking for things like that back* - a gift is a gift, no matter what happens.
i could have been petty and in that case would have taken two thirds of his shirts, his thick socks, "his" thick airwalk jacket, book light, shower gels, deodorant, pint glasses, mugs and the chest freezer. i would have gone as far as demanding my bag of brussels sprouts back as well if he'd been a proper d*ck about it.
he dropped it though. so that's sound.
'course, i only got about half of the sh*t i'd leant him back, not going to see the rest of that again. but whatever.
*=i personally didn't even ask for any of it back to start with, other than my headphones.
all this has been done through other people, i couldn't be arsed getting involved with it, he just assumed that the withheld number that turned up on his phone was me when it wasn't, it was faye when she was sat outside his house in her mums car.
anyway, since stuff is staying where it is now, here is jake enjoying his newest toy, courtesy of butthead. - his precious stuffed snake.
(i will add though, that that snake is now minus most of it's stuffing, but at least the boy is enjoying it )
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