Well I'm back to singledom after 3 years.... wasn't sure i did the right thing by ending the relationship but when she pours yogurt over my nice clean car and repeatedly tells me to f*ck off and die at work well i feel more justified at the decision. Does anyone else think it's weird how so called love quickly turns into hatred??? Must be a nice sane girl out there whose a bit kinky?
Well I'm back to singledom after 3 years.... wasn't sure i did the right thing by ending the relationship but when she pours yogurt over my nice clean car and repeatedly tells me to f*ck off and die at work well i feel more justified at the decision. Does anyone else think it's weird how so called love quickly turns into hatred??? Must be a nice sane girl out there whose a bit kinky?
She does sound mean so it's understandable that you ended things. Also, i hope you're all right.
Yeah I'm ok. It was the right time to end things. I felt like we'd drifted apart a bit and i didn't see a future for us for a long time. I gave up two years of my life for her and all i get is her acting like a d*ck. I moved to a city i hated to support her through uni, i never complained that i had to work at a sh*te job while she went out partying with her uni buddies. But the rare occasion i ever met my mates i'd get abusive calls from her. More i think about it just wtf was i doing??? Sigh if only i had the balls to ask out that girl i went to uni with my life would have been so different. Shes married now with a kid
I am venturing into the world of online dating. Has anyone had any luck with this? any advice? I mean it has to be better than meeting some skanky drunk bint in a club or pub and then foolishly end up going out with them for 2 fooking years
Well so far i seem to have only attracted really fat women or granny's. But I did receive a message from a girl whose just finished the same uni course i studied. She seems nice, will see how it pans out...
I keep thinking I'm in a good place, then I end up looking at my ex's facebook and feeling sick. ugh.
I find myself doing the same thing, i dunno why. The best thing to do is block her entirely. Otherwise you'll keep being drawn back to it. I think i look out of a sense of curiosity, for someone who supposedly loved me so much she seems to have moved on pretty fast. A part of me says good on her but another part is a tad p*ssed off.
I keep thinking I'm in a good place, then I end up looking at my ex's facebook and feeling sick. ugh.
I find myself doing the same thing, i dunno why. The best thing to do is block her entirely. Otherwise you'll keep being drawn back to it. I think i look out of a sense of curiosity, for someone who supposedly loved me so much she seems to have moved on pretty fast. A part of me says good on her but another part is a tad p*ssed off.
I did do that, and cut off all contact- but... Well. I still look. Got to stop doing that.
Seriously wtf, why do i keep attracting women that i don't find attractive in the slightest! So far since becoming single i've atttracted three women who i find physically repulsive , I think i'm a pretty decent looking bloke but too attract women like that holy sh*t, i feel depressed. , online dating is also doing the same.
Do you think you are ready for another relationship?
Yes, if a really nice woman appeared on the scene you bet. The ex is making moving on really easy thanks to her stupidity and dramatization? of things. She was only 2 years younger than me but boy can you tell, she acts like a f*cking child.
But the moent I tell anyone I am, they start telling me that 'I'll find somone' and that it will be okay.
I'm not looking, and don't really want anyone. That's a good thing, right?
Yeah, it sounds like a good thing. It's a bit patronising that people try to help you when you don't need any help. People are sometimes nosy like that, though.
I am! For the first time in my life I'm being moderately successful with women- you know, in the way everybody else was when they were 18 (whereas I was jumping between long term relationships) so you know what- I'm happy being single.
Emma:
So… Posting a new thread is Fission Mailing… so I’m putting this here.
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I know there aren’t many people looking at this anymore… but I have made the decision to stop paying for the VR hosting and to let the domain lapse.
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I think it will be going offline around the end of May
Emma:
It’s been almost 10 years since James passed away… and I feel like it’s time.
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