Blergh, I turned my phone on because I couldn't stand it.
I had two texts from him: "Thank you for destroying me. Thank you for not believing the things I say. I'll call you tomorrow and it's up to you if you answer. I love you.ahhhh"
followed by
"The ahhh was unintentional"
Firstly, it made my cry and feel horribly guilty, but it's not actually relevant to the text I sent at all, I didn't even mention the amount of times I know he's lied to me.
You've done the right thing mate, try and be strong.
I agree. You'll be alright. Cheer up when you want, but you'll be alright mate. We'll try to make sure of that, yes we willsir. Ma'am. Lady? Sarah.
Blergh, I turned my phone on because I couldn't stand it.
I had two texts from him: "Thank you for destroying me. Thank you for not believing the things I say. I'll call you tomorrow and it's up to you if you answer. I love you.ahhhh"
followed by
"The ahhh was unintentional"
Firstly, it made my cry and feel horribly guilty, but it's not actually relevant to the text I sent at all, I didn't even mention the amount of times I know he's lied to me.
You've done the right thing mate, try and be strong.
That was the plan. Chin up and think of the positives that can come from this. Be strong and stick to your guns. Oh, and bad idea to go and meet him to talk if he suggests it. You (general people, not specific you) will end up in bed together.
I got an email from Charlie that's set me off again. Do I just ignore it? Do I wait and see if he actually means it?
Blergh.
There was no way he was going to change while I enabled him to keep being the same way. He knew that he didn't really have to say sorry or anything because I proved that I'd stick around despite what he did to me. This sounds like he might actually want to change things.
I suppose I just have to wait and see if he means what he's said.
Honest advice here, you should just tell him you need to focus on your exams for the next while and that you can't think about this until they're over. This will also give you time to see if he starts paying back money, or been out getting hammered etc
I'm unclear on something because (without meaning to sound callous), I don't know which of the things you've posted about in the past relate to him, but how many chances have you already given him? And with no disrespect meant to you, if you do keep going back and back again, maybe he's going to think, or maybe he already does think, that you're a doormat.
Nice email and all, but at the moment they're empty promises. Needs to be seen before it's believed, and all that.
Barry has the best shout in the meantime. Watch from a distance and deduce for yourself based on his actions in the coming months wether or not the above are simply words.
I am ill. Positive because it hopefully means being energy-free, depressy, too ugly to get even a pity date from Sin, sleeping particularly badly and too much and eating like a man are temporary. But oww.
Having a damn beautiful dinner of turkey breast marinaded in cayenne chilli pepper, piri-piri sauce, onions, garlic and passata with broccoli and corn.
Giving in to temptation and having a pint of coke with it.
What sucks? i can't justify paying £50 for speakers when i have some that work perfectly well
Easy solution: 'Accidentally' drop your existing speakers out of the window.
Or 'accidentally' mail them to me.
thing is, these ones are also an ipod dock, and despite hardly using the thing any more it's the only way i can charge the thing or add any music to it since my cable went walk about
Emma:
So… Posting a new thread is Fission Mailing… so I’m putting this here.
Emma:
I know there aren’t many people looking at this anymore… but I have made the decision to stop paying for the VR hosting and to let the domain lapse.
Emma:
I think it will be going offline around the end of May
Emma:
It’s been almost 10 years since James passed away… and I feel like it’s time.
Emma:
A lot of the regulars can be found on the VR veterans group on Facebook - if you see this and you’re not in there, come join us.