Singledom
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Quote: Pinga, Mar 2010
Nah not her, someone else whose drink she knocked out of her hand.
Quote: Albi The Racist Dragon, Mar 2010Quote: Lisbeth Salander, Mar 2010The basic thing you need to remember when females are involved is this: if there is any possible way that an insult can be read into your comment, don't say it. It's an insult.
I think your best bet is to get every female on VR to combine our knowledge and then we can snag you a woman. It's hunting, isn't it?
Oi, get me one first, I've been single longer.
Pulled on Friday for the first time in ages, a direct result of which was getting punched in the face by another girl. Fun night
she punched you in the face? classy
Nah not her, someone else whose drink she knocked out of her hand.
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Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...
Seeing both girls outside of work in the next week. Things should be a lot clearer by this time next week 
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Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...
Quote: Ted 'Smooth' Bundy, Mar 2010
Right, that's more plausible than the hotel thing.
More things are coming back to me now too, at one point, this was quite early on in the evening too, she asked me whether I could ever see us sleeping together. To which I answered yes, weirdly I could, but then when I asked her the same question back she said not casually but in a relationship, which is an encouraging answer but not consistent with the whole sex at the end of the night scenario.
Last night was good
Or sharing a taxi back to hers?
Right, that's more plausible than the hotel thing.
More things are coming back to me now too, at one point, this was quite early on in the evening too, she asked me whether I could ever see us sleeping together. To which I answered yes, weirdly I could, but then when I asked her the same question back she said not casually but in a relationship, which is an encouraging answer but not consistent with the whole sex at the end of the night scenario.
Last night was good
I aim to misbehave
Quote: Abacus, Mar 2010
Unless she was hinting that if you're up for it, she'd like to be your girlfriend. In which case, I wouldn't worry about anything you think you did wrong last night. She obviously likes you and all this stuff could just be something you laugh about in a few years.
Y'know, before you start resenting each other and abusing prescription medication just to heal the emotional wounds of your life
Quote: Ted 'Smooth' Bundy, Mar 2010Or sharing a taxi back to hers?
Right, that's more plausible than the hotel thing.
More things are coming back to me now too, at one point, this was quite early on in the evening too, she asked me whether I could ever see us sleeping together. To which I answered yes, weirdly I could, but then when I asked her the same question back she said not casually but in a relationship, which is an encouraging answer but not consistent with the whole sex at the end of the night scenario.
Last night was good
Unless she was hinting that if you're up for it, she'd like to be your girlfriend. In which case, I wouldn't worry about anything you think you did wrong last night. She obviously likes you and all this stuff could just be something you laugh about in a few years.
Y'know, before you start resenting each other and abusing prescription medication just to heal the emotional wounds of your life
Outside-left
So, of the three people I was interested in (it was two, it's been three for a couple of months now), one is a no-go because she's a long term fella, one is a no-go due to distance, and the third is a no-go because in a phone call this afternoon, she told me she's seeing someone...female.
What the f*ck is my life?
What the f*ck is my life?
Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...
At least the reasons are nothing you can (really) do anything about. Imagine if one of the reasons was she found you repulsive, that'd be worse
I aim to misbehave
Quote: the doc, Mar 2010
Yeah, that was a great day
Quote: Albert Johanneson, Mar 2010So, of the three people I was interested in (it was two, it's been three for a couple of months now), one is a no-go because she's a long term fella, one is a no-go due to distance, and the third is a no-go because in a phone call this afternoon, she told me she's seeing someone...female.
What the f*ck is my life?
Poor Dan. That last part's almost as funny as when that 'girl' Alec was chatting up turned out to be a guy and then he came on here and said it wasn't the first time it had happened
Yeah, that was a great day
Only happened to me once but I was able to make it sound like I knew he was a guy all along.
"Do you watch 24?"
"No"
"You look a lot like Nina Williams [sic]"
"Oh?"
"Yeah! She's.."
"She?"
"Er... yeah, she's quite manly looking"
"Do you watch 24?"
"No"
"You look a lot like Nina Williams [sic]"
"Oh?"
"Yeah! She's.."
"She?"
"Er... yeah, she's quite manly looking"
Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...
So, I finally managed to get the nice girl from work out after work for a drink on our own and I (eventually) pretty much opened up as to how I felt about her. It's very early days but there was no bad reaction apart from surprise, which I find quite difficult to believe tbh. She said she needed time to think about it and for it to sink in but wasn't sure how she felt...Hmm.
I recieved a really nice text from her when she'd got home though saying she'd really enjoyed the night and that I shouldn't feel weird and it was by far the nicest ting anyone had ever said to her. I guess that's good and I was never expecting her to leap into my arms and for us to suddenlt to be an item as she's just not like that; she's very closed off in many ways and I think if anything does happen it'll be a slow process.
Either way though I feel so pleased to have got it all off my chest as it was really getting me down not having said anything and I'm proud of myself for having the courage to tell a real life girl I actually like and care about her and want to be with her. I may be being quite big-headed but there were a couple of times I think I was actually quite smooth and charming too
I recieved a really nice text from her when she'd got home though saying she'd really enjoyed the night and that I shouldn't feel weird and it was by far the nicest ting anyone had ever said to her. I guess that's good and I was never expecting her to leap into my arms and for us to suddenlt to be an item as she's just not like that; she's very closed off in many ways and I think if anything does happen it'll be a slow process.
Either way though I feel so pleased to have got it all off my chest as it was really getting me down not having said anything and I'm proud of myself for having the courage to tell a real life girl I actually like and care about her and want to be with her. I may be being quite big-headed but there were a couple of times I think I was actually quite smooth and charming too
pffft just go for it.
worst advice ever, but t'worked on me >_>
just shove yer hand down her keks & see where it goes. just keep asking her if she wants you to stop. if nothing else you'll have had yer end away
worst advice ever, but t'worked on me >_>
just shove yer hand down her keks & see where it goes. just keep asking her if she wants you to stop. if nothing else you'll have had yer end away
I'm seeing that guy tomorrow/today. I really don't want to do it. Need a pep talk or smt. 
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