Singledom

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Topper

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7th Jan 2010 at 11:30 pm

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
Yeah, I sort of thought all that. Still bothered me though, as I'm pretty sure I'm lots of things but I know I'm a good person who never goes out to be d*ckheadish to people.

The ex is dating too though, so that's good, I was genuinaly happy to find that out
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

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learrggh

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8th Jan 2010 at 1:13 am

learrggh -

 
i wish people wouldn't go on about women being irrational etc. it just paves way for stereotype to be enforced by association or reality, women thinking it's okay and men being d*cks about it all time.

i know it's a joke, it's just a subjec t that annoys.

Πανδώρα

| 15,327 posts


8th Jan 2010 at 1:30 am

 Πανδώρα -

 
Quote: Fred West, Jan 2010
I find too many people attractive when I'm sober.


I don't find anyone attractive. it's an extremely rare occurrence if i do
*burp*

Dinglebutt

| 11,949 posts


8th Jan 2010 at 8:50 am

Dinglebutt - I aim to misbehave

I aim to misbehave

 
Quote: pedobear, Jan 2010
i wish people wouldn't go on about women being irrational etc. it just paves way for stereotype to be enforced by association or reality, women thinking it's okay and men being d*cks about it all time.

i know it's a joke, it's just a subjec t that annoys.


Calm down, it's just a joke. Man, you're being so irrati.....

Perhaps I shouldn't finish that sentence










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Zoë: Big damn heroes, sir.
Mal: Ain't we just.

LoonyPandora

| 17,916 posts


8th Jan 2010 at 8:32 pm

LoonyPandora - Daft Cow?

Daft Cow?

 
Quote: Abacus, Jan 2010

Went out with the ex tonight for a "catch-up" in an attempt to stay friends and it was pretty f*cking grim. Apparently I've been acting like a d*ckhead since we broke up, according to mutual friends, but she was conveniently unable to name names or give examples as to why. F*ck that.


Always goes that way. Stupid, but it really does take a bit of time before you can even have a civil conversation. Still, could be much worse.

Alec

| 1,347 posts


8th Jan 2010 at 8:43 pm

Alec - Bing Bong Changes

Bing Bong Changes

 
Quote: mr lisa, Jan 2010
Quote: Fred West, Jan 2010
I find too many people attractive when I'm sober.


I don't find anyone attractive. it's an extremely rare occurrence if i do


I feel all special now.

Topper

| 6,773 posts


9th Jan 2010 at 9:05 am

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
Gah. Went out last night with work people (but not 19 year-old) and ended up getting off with the girl I sort of nearly had something with straight after breaking up with the ex. Not sure how it happened as I thought that was just a no go and I think it still will be but I feel bad now even though I'm still resoundingly single. I'm not gonna lie though, It was a pretty ace night
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Topper

| 6,773 posts


14th Jan 2010 at 6:17 pm

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
Update: Things are going well. Had the biggest green-light text message ever last night and she brought me in a birthday present today Just gotta meet up again now
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Albert Johanneson

| 14,477 posts


14th Jan 2010 at 7:44 pm

Albert Johanneson - Outside-left

Outside-left

 
I'll be round in 30 minutes. Be a dear and run me a bath, ta.

Albert Johanneson

| 14,477 posts


14th Jan 2010 at 8:01 pm

Albert Johanneson - Outside-left

Outside-left

 
That'd be lovely, but stay away from my feet, aye.

Jewbacca

| 6,793 posts


14th Jan 2010 at 8:05 pm

Jewbacca -

 
Quote: The Underwhelmed One, Jan 2010
Plus, I know from experience that I can end up a bit of a serial monogomist as I'm rubbish at saying no to people and what I intend to be a one night stand always turns into something else!

I'm exactly the same!
AAAAAAARRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

Dissimulation

| 5,671 posts


15th Jan 2010 at 8:58 pm

Dissimulation -

 
Quote: Martool™, Jan 2010
Quote: The Underwhelmed One, Jan 2010
Plus, I know from experience that I can end up a bit of a serial monogomist as I'm rubbish at saying no to people and what I intend to be a one night stand always turns into something else!

I'm exactly the same!


Plus you get the joys of saying no to someone without either hurting their feelings, or adding to a complex. I'm getting pretty good at letting girls down after they've flattered me into submission, but if I'm drunk and someone pays me a bit of attention, I'm ridiculously easy. On the flip-side, I haven't got the confidence to actually man-up and go in for the kill, when it comes to the people I do like. I'm starting to think that maybe I should just settle.

Topper

| 6,773 posts


16th Jan 2010 at 9:07 pm

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
If I could've found someone at short notice to go up Birmingham with me tonight I'm 99.9% sure I'd have got "in there" tonight, but none of my so-called friends are willing to help me out. B*st*rds :p

Another night of sexual frustration for me then. *goes for tissues*
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Topper

| 6,773 posts


25th Jan 2010 at 8:50 pm

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
Things are a bit up in the air at the moment. I'm really getting very attracted again to the girl I kissed again last week and to be honest we're extremely compatible, far more so than me and 19-year old.
Re: 19-year old, we're due to meet up Sunday coming, so unless she cancels again I'll have of an update after then. She's a weird one; all the signs from her are Uber positive (texts like "you can't go celibate when you can have meeee") but then she doesn't seem too arsed to fit me in around her busy 19-year old social schedule. But then she'll be all funny with me about going to Amsterdam, basically saying I'm gonna pay for sex, which, considering I've had one sexual partner in my whole life, isn't really a fair assumption to jump to, even if it is Amserdam.

It's definitely going to have to be a 'see how it goes' job with 19-year old and maybe I'll just put my feelings on the table to t'other girl and just see what she says. I feel bad for liking 2 girls at the same time tbh, which is a bit silly as I'm not with either of them, but still.
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Dissimulation

| 5,671 posts


25th Jan 2010 at 11:12 pm

Dissimulation -

 
It's definitely silly. You're allowed to date more than one person at a time. As long as you're honest about it to both girls, you've got nothing to feel guilty about.

Jewbacca

| 6,793 posts


28th Jan 2010 at 10:18 pm

Jewbacca -

 
This girl Sarah I've liked for a while is finally my fully fledged girlfriend Plus she's two years younger than me. Cashback!
AAAAAAARRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

LoonyPandora

| 17,916 posts


29th Jan 2010 at 12:09 am

LoonyPandora - Daft Cow?

Daft Cow?

 
Quote: Martoraptor™, Jan 2010
This girl Sarah I've liked for a while is finally my fully fledged girlfriend Plus she's two years younger than me. Cashback!


Does that make her a 90's child?

Πανδώρα

| 15,327 posts


29th Jan 2010 at 12:50 am

 Πανδώρα -

 
You divorce me, you're keeping the dog.

YOU ARE KEEPING THE DOG.
*burp*

Topper

| 6,773 posts


31st Jan 2010 at 12:08 pm

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
19 year old cancelled on me again today. She needs time to think about things apparently. I think this one is game over now; she's a head f*ck.
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Jewbacca

| 6,793 posts


31st Jan 2010 at 7:51 pm

Jewbacca -

 
She is so too real, Claire

Quote: LoonyPandora, Jan 2010
Quote: Martoraptor™, Jan 2010
This girl Sarah I've liked for a while is finally my fully fledged girlfriend Plus she's two years younger than me. Cashback!


Does that make her a 90's child?

I think so, I'd assume so, her birthday is August and she's 19 and I've just remembered I'm 22 so that's actually 3 years. Back of the net?

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AAAAAAARRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!

Topper

| 6,773 posts


31st Jan 2010 at 11:31 pm

Topper - Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

Dismantling a person is sometimes necessary...

 
Quote: Pinga, Jan 2010
Quote: Abacus, Jan 2010
19 year old cancelled on me again today. She needs time to think about things apparently. I think this one is game over now; she's a head f*ck.


hope you're ok Alex [hug.gif]


I'm alright yeah, it's not like I was in love with her or anything, she was just quite hot if I'm honest, we were never in any way compatible for a relationship, I'm not even sure I know what I was after there as it wasn't even sex I was after...well, not wholly

I'll see what she says to me when I'm back at work next week, I can almost 100% guaranee I get the "let's just be friends" speech but she can feck off, she's given more mixed signals now than I can even comprehend; I don't think she even knows what she wants.
I hope some day, for some reason, David Duchovny is investigated by the FBI. Because that would make a great story.

http://www.myspace.com/toppercutter

Jewbacca

| 6,793 posts


1st Feb 2010 at 12:00 am

Jewbacca -

 
Quote: Abacus, Jan 2010
Quote: Pinga, Jan 2010
Quote: Abacus, Jan 2010
19 year old cancelled on me again today. She needs time to think about things apparently. I think this one is game over now; she's a head f*ck.


hope you're ok Alex [hug.gif]


I'm alright yeah


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That's the main thing.
AAAAAAARRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!


 
 
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