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Claire

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23rd Jul 2020 at 6:44 am

Claire - Darren is most certainly not my god!

Darren is most certainly not my god!

 
I wish my brain didn’t want to be so honest and also I hope that by being honest I don’t get in trouble and that I’m just overthinking this.
Coloured Lilac And Insults Rarely E(Anymore)

Quote: Claire, Jun 2005
Basically, I'm just mangling and regurgitating what everyone's already said.


I’m really glad that the quote in my signature is a teenager.
Joint best Mod 2009. Officials.

Winner of most longstanding mod in the history of the internet. Or at least most resillient/lifelacking VR staff member 2012.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


23rd Jul 2020 at 4:44 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Quote: Claire, Jul 2020
I wish my brain didn’t want to be so honest and also I hope that by being honest I don’t get in trouble and that I’m just overthinking this.


Honesty is usually the best policy.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

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23rd Jul 2020 at 4:45 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
I am an idiot sometimes.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Rayanne Graff

| 76,001 posts


23rd Jul 2020 at 6:07 pm

Rayanne Graff - River Phoenix

River Phoenix

 
Quote: Vel, Jul 2020
I am an idiot sometimes.


No, you're not.
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Vel

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24th Jul 2020 at 6:48 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Gah.

I don't know why I f*cking fancy him. Stupid f*cking hormones.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


24th Jul 2020 at 9:16 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Just FML.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


25th Jul 2020 at 10:31 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Why do you get under my skin so?
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


25th Jul 2020 at 10:33 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Also, now I am very much overthinking things.

Was it just because I was there? Or does he like me?
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


25th Jul 2020 at 6:20 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Stop picking your fingers and go make a sandwich.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


25th Jul 2020 at 10:12 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Oh. It's now awkward. Damn.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


26th Jul 2020 at 7:43 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Well. I tried.

Stupid men.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


26th Jul 2020 at 9:24 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
I guess I got my answer. He doesn't like me in that way.

F*ck it hurts.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


27th Jul 2020 at 9:07 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Meh.

Someday someone I like will like me back. Maybe. Maybe.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


28th Jul 2020 at 7:04 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
I liked it when I had hope.

What the f*ck is wrong with me that men I like never like me back?!
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


28th Jul 2020 at 7:04 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
I'm in danger of becoming a study aholic if I can't find more friends that enjoy chatting.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


2nd Aug 2020 at 10:19 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Meh.

Will things ever go my way? Ever?

Hahahaha. Nope.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Claire

| 15,814 posts


5th Aug 2020 at 4:43 pm

Claire - Darren is most certainly not my god!

Darren is most certainly not my god!

 
Quote: Vel, Aug 2020
Meh.

Will things ever go my way? Ever?

Hahahaha. Nope.


They will xxx
Coloured Lilac And Insults Rarely E(Anymore)

Quote: Claire, Jun 2005
Basically, I'm just mangling and regurgitating what everyone's already said.


I’m really glad that the quote in my signature is a teenager.
Joint best Mod 2009. Officials.

Winner of most longstanding mod in the history of the internet. Or at least most resillient/lifelacking VR staff member 2012.

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


5th Aug 2020 at 5:34 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Quote: Claire, Aug 2020
Quote: Vel, Aug 2020
Meh.

Will things ever go my way? Ever?

Hahahaha. Nope.


They will xxx


Indeed. A change is likely needed.

Πανδώρα

| 15,327 posts


6th Aug 2020 at 7:37 pm

 Πανδώρα -

 
I don't want to spend £3000 on a car.
But it's a good car. And I want it.

Soon I will *need* it.
I don't think its worth throwing any more money at my mazda mum bus. She's getting very tired. I could fix one thing, but the other issues will just poison the new part so it's not really going to be the best use of funds...
I like my car though.
The spring on the rear that refuses to stay seated properly makes her sound like a knackered old ship when you go over bumps, it's immense

Hmm. Need to decide what to do.
*burp*

Vel

| 23,203 posts


7th Aug 2020 at 4:45 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Well, it is now 2 weeks after the frantic kissing sessions and I think it's ok to say I didn't get Covid from them

Feels like ages ago!
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Rayanne Graff

| 76,001 posts


7th Aug 2020 at 6:12 pm

Rayanne Graff - River Phoenix

River Phoenix

 
i'm glad you didn't get it.
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Vel

| 23,203 posts


8th Aug 2020 at 5:11 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
I really hate it when people think I am this fragile person who needs sheltering from sh*t things in life.

F*ck. That.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


8th Aug 2020 at 5:56 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
I hope I'm livelier tomorrow.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


9th Aug 2020 at 5:38 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Karma's a b*tch.

I should be a nicer person.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


10th Aug 2020 at 6:16 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
6 years.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


10th Aug 2020 at 10:43 am

Lucozade Lover -

 
I will be glad once this storm hits. [Zzz.gif]

Vel

| 23,203 posts


12th Aug 2020 at 5:37 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
You appear to be going back through my Facebook posts of the past few days and liking them.

Men are weird headf*cks.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


15th Aug 2020 at 8:11 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
I learned far too much about birds and cloacas today.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


16th Aug 2020 at 12:00 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Tw*t.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Πανδώρα

| 15,327 posts


18th Aug 2020 at 7:12 pm

 Πανδώρα -

 
Quote: Vel, Aug 2020
Tw*t.


That's me
*burp*

Vel

| 23,203 posts


25th Aug 2020 at 7:47 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
I like you a lot. Why?
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


28th Aug 2020 at 8:34 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Why is it that men on dating apps just can't hold a conversation?
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


29th Aug 2020 at 7:48 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Take me back to a time when I was happy. Please.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


30th Aug 2020 at 1:43 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Quote: Vel, Aug 2020
Why is it that men on dating apps just can't hold a conversation?

I've had the issue where I've filled out a profile with interests but some men have insisted on commenting on my figure instead which guarantees I'll be saying thanks but no thanks.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


31st Aug 2020 at 12:19 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Quote: Luco El Loco, Aug 2020
Quote: Vel, Aug 2020
Why is it that men on dating apps just can't hold a conversation?

I've had the issue where I've filled out a profile with interests but some men have insisted on commenting on my figure instead which guarantees I'll be saying thanks but no thanks.


If I get messages, it's usually just a "hi" or "hey".
At least add an "how are you?", Ffs.

It's not my medium. But I have zero clue on how to meet people otherwise.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


31st Aug 2020 at 1:25 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Nice shock this afternoon of an anonymous £20+ contribution to my charity page for a run I am doing over September.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


31st Aug 2020 at 11:38 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Thought I was past crying myself to sleep because I am so f*cking lonely.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


2nd Sept 2020 at 4:29 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Is it worth looking for a job? Perhaps I should fritter away my savings while I work on projects to boost my experience, skills and CV. I haven't seen a friend since March and don't want to dip into my savings for travel money but... my mum's moods are driving me mad and I need some sensible adult company.

Claire

| 15,814 posts


5th Sept 2020 at 10:01 pm

Claire - Darren is most certainly not my god!

Darren is most certainly not my god!

 
I am not looking forward to Monday. I hope what I think is going to happen doesn’t. I just need to think of myself, why do I never do that? Always more concerned about what others think of me or letting people down than my own happiness.
Coloured Lilac And Insults Rarely E(Anymore)

Quote: Claire, Jun 2005
Basically, I'm just mangling and regurgitating what everyone's already said.


I’m really glad that the quote in my signature is a teenager.
Joint best Mod 2009. Officials.

Winner of most longstanding mod in the history of the internet. Or at least most resillient/lifelacking VR staff member 2012.

Vel

| 23,203 posts


6th Sept 2020 at 6:48 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Quote: Claire, Sept 2020
I am not looking forward to Monday. I hope what I think is going to happen doesn’t. I just need to think of myself, why do I never do that? Always more concerned about what others think of me or letting people down than my own happiness.

Don't "what if". Best piece of advice I was given.

And the latter is partly because you're a woman and we have been conditioned into thinking that to put ourselves first is selfish. It's not. Self care is NOT selfish and looking after yourself in whatever way you need to is not selfish.
And you are like Emma in the latter's regard. It's good to think about others. But putting yourself first isn't selfish and you can't pour from an empty jug anyway.

Take care.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


6th Sept 2020 at 6:51 am

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
I just feel absolutely miserable. I am scared about Monday primarily because I haven't been on site in so long. But I miss people.

I also feel like sh*t because I have spoken to f*ck all people this past week and I am horrifically lonely and just feel like crying and I knew this would happen if I was stuck inside.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Vel

| 23,203 posts


7th Sept 2020 at 7:06 pm

Vel - Marry me?

Marry me?

 
Don't get my hopes up.
Wife of Amy, Sex Goddess

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


9th Sept 2020 at 6:56 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Quote: Vel, Sept 2020
you can't pour from an empty jug


I like this very much.

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


15th Sept 2020 at 9:02 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Wow, someone remembered me.

Rayanne Graff

| 76,001 posts


16th Sept 2020 at 11:37 am

Rayanne Graff - River Phoenix

River Phoenix

 
Ugh, one of my neighbours is listening to blurred lines.
*[http://www.vegetablerevolution.co.uk/uploads/549604.jpg]*

Lucozade Lover

| 8,558 posts


25th Sept 2020 at 5:40 pm

Lucozade Lover -

 
Doing a sponsored something is one way to find out who supports you. There have been pleasant and unpleasant surprises.

Πανδώρα

| 15,327 posts


27th Sept 2020 at 12:18 am

 Πανδώρα -

 
I need to pee.
But it's so cold.
*burp*

Dinglebutt

| 11,949 posts


6th Oct 2020 at 2:43 pm

Dinglebutt - I aim to misbehave

I aim to misbehave

 
Friend I haven't really spoken to in a while just called me and invited me to interview for a job at the company he works at, as I've said before his job has a lot of things I'd like to do (we have same qualifications, but it's a wide area of extpertise with different job roles under).

I've been working where I am for 12 years now. I am comfortable here, but I do have issues with it, much of which I've raised before but been told there's basically nothing they can do. It's also a small company so I've pretty much gotten to as high a level as I can until one of the bosses retires, which could be another 12 years.

The new job would involve some things I have little experience of, but think I'd be capable of. On the other hand I have most of my current job nailed at this point. But me leaving could have a huge effect on the company given how involved I am in some of our jobs and clients, and it'd be really hard to do that to my bosses.

Pay is similar, benefits are maybe a bit better in the new company... Current company wouldn't be able to offer me anything more given the way things are at the moment, whereas the other company are much larger and involved in a different part of the industry and are largely covid/recession proof.

F*ck, I don't know what to do... Friend told me I shouldn't go for it unless I really wanted it, but I don't know if I really want it or not because I just haven't thought about it, but there's also a ticking clock on the application, would need to submit this week.
Mal: Appears we got here just in the nick of time. What does that make us?
Zoë: Big damn heroes, sir.
Mal: Ain't we just.

Dinglebutt

| 11,949 posts


8th Oct 2020 at 2:04 pm

Dinglebutt - I aim to misbehave

I aim to misbehave

 
Quote: Dinglebutt, Oct 2020
Friend I haven't really spoken to in a while just called me and invited me to interview for a job at the company he works at, as I've said before his job has a lot of things I'd like to do (we have same qualifications, but it's a wide area of extpertise with different job roles under).

I've been working where I am for 12 years now. I am comfortable here, but I do have issues with it, much of which I've raised before but been told there's basically nothing they can do. It's also a small company so I've pretty much gotten to as high a level as I can until one of the bosses retires, which could be another 12 years.

The new job would involve some things I have little experience of, but think I'd be capable of. On the other hand I have most of my current job nailed at this point. But me leaving could have a huge effect on the company given how involved I am in some of our jobs and clients, and it'd be really hard to do that to my bosses.

Pay is similar, benefits are maybe a bit better in the new company... Current company wouldn't be able to offer me anything more given the way things are at the moment, whereas the other company are much larger and involved in a different part of the industry and are largely covid/recession proof.

F*ck, I don't know what to do... Friend told me I shouldn't go for it unless I really wanted it, but I don't know if I really want it or not because I just haven't thought about it, but there's also a ticking clock on the application, would need to submit this week.


Decided not to go for it. Decided I'll try fight to improve things where I am. Said I'd talk to the bosses today about it.

They asked me for a chat and told me they're closing up the company in a few months and making us redundant.

It'd be funny if it wasn't utterly terrifying.
Mal: Appears we got here just in the nick of time. What does that make us?
Zoë: Big damn heroes, sir.
Mal: Ain't we just.

Claire

| 15,814 posts


8th Oct 2020 at 9:29 pm

Claire - Darren is most certainly not my god!

Darren is most certainly not my god!

 
I hope that things work out Barry, I genuinely believe things happen for a reason and I think you should still apply for the new job if you still have time to.
Coloured Lilac And Insults Rarely E(Anymore)

Quote: Claire, Jun 2005
Basically, I'm just mangling and regurgitating what everyone's already said.


I’m really glad that the quote in my signature is a teenager.
Joint best Mod 2009. Officials.

Winner of most longstanding mod in the history of the internet. Or at least most resillient/lifelacking VR staff member 2012.


 
 
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