Homophobia and campness-hatitude are totally different things. There's nothing wrong with being gay.
But being so overly, screaming camp that everything is OMG, sooooo scandalous or whathaveyou (yes, I can't do a camp impression, I'm trying to mimic my mentor who cannot spell "pope"...but give that a limp wrist and the non-Will Will and Grace character's voice) deserves punishment. I may suggest being hanged, but being against capital punishment, even for campness, I vote with putting them in fashion that's 3 darned seasons out of date.
It's probably not homophobia- often people just clash for no good reason. Happens all the time with girls. Face it, you just can't get along with everyone
Two-facedness is a problem, but not quite as bad as the screaching campness. Do you know if others are getting sick of it?